the holy (k)not

21 05 2009

whilst in my ripeness of 27, i still remain unwed (or better said, not finding myself knotted up), i might be lucky some may think to have witnessed a fair number of ‘untyings’ in my lifetime.

i struggle to maintain optimism and faith in such holy blessed whathaveyou of this act of unison bla bla bla

it depends on your idea of the sacredness of marriage, a friend once wrote me in an sms (which she sent while trying to break the news that she has asked for a divorce from her groom of less than 2 years). I got married too soon… The usual scramble for excuses to escape from someone with whom passion and romance has gone dry.

extra marital affairs, marriage for residential permit, death of a fiance @ most perfect man ever met a day before the engagement (ex girlfriend couldn’t let him be happy with anyone else). I’ve learned of the tales, i’ve watched this sacred event come and go, and disintegrate in folds…

And discouraged i am, i must admit. Even whilst i still maintain somewhat traditional values relevant to this matter, i fear it…what’s in store for us, the fearful.. Singles.


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